The first time we met, please boast their shoes

The first time I saw a shy child, please boast their shoes. The reasons are as follows:

You need to reduce the tension in the atmosphere, so it should be offered to the both of you can reach a consensus friendly topic. As long as you say: "Oh, your red shoes beautiful Oh!"

"Hey, you're wearing blue pants Oh?" Little guy will follow your line of sight to look down, brushless motorso the children would not be scared of this stranger's face, but they can have a peace of mind looked at the stuff, so they will be able to gradually get used to your presence and voice.

Do not directly praise the child to boast their wearing or holding something. This is because you need to mention their personal topic, and to give a positive evaluation, but can not let the topic become too personal. Then you are likely to let the other moved embarrassed or embarrassed.

Extra points are mentioned color or cartoon characters, such as a child know you say: "hey, this is Mickey Mouse Oh?"

Children: "dc motor gear dba5a06dkMickey Mouse."

You say: "ah, Mickey Mouse, I like it very much Mickey Mouse."

Children: "Mickey Mouse."

Of three-year-old child, this is a meaningful and valuable dialogue.

The above is equally applicable to adults.