addictive perfectionist

Frequent blind addictive perfectionist to be careful
blind addiction addiction refers to a blind person can not even control, blind date seems to have become an integral part of life, from power is often low.

In the present life is no longer a blind date to find the most suitable for the other half of the blind, but has become a trend of life. Since the "You Are the One" to TV blind into the public view, a lot of new models into the blind people's lives, parents on behalf of children to each other online blind date, blind date, and so on microblogging. Unconsciously, we do not consciously go blind, and even not stop on the psychological addiction ... IN ...recycle netbook

Blind as if life has become a lot of single men and women as part of the content, which developed a habit, if you break this habit will be very accustomed to, if not a month a blind date, TA will doubt: no one has given me about how the object? I was not the goal and then take a look around? So some of the hidden psychological ideas, resulting in control.

Well-known psychologist Liusong Yan pointed out that some experts pointed out that the frequent blind date without success, at least to prove the existence of their own problems, may have been blind addiction. However, she believes that addiction does not mean blind general psychological problems, proper regulation can improve, if developed into areas uncontrollable mental illness, you need to seek the help of a psychiatrist.


Liu Songyan, the state two counselors, the psychological studio founder easily. Chinese Psychological Society, registered psychologists, counselors qualification of national trainers, counseling supervision division. Feeling good marriage, parent-child relationships, emotional management, psychosomatic diseases, neurological disorders.trade-in netbook

Why blind addiction?

One is hooked on countless blind, phase out the pleasure, and as a music, love is not blind from the light; the other is blind failed several times, heart low self-esteem, from disillusioned, no longer believe in love.

Whatever the phenomenon, "this is the motive in question blind date," Liu Songyan that the blind will not be given significant "mission", but has become friends with many young people a new way. This does not attach importance to the blind, often affect the initial expectations of the blind date, blind date and even the way the decision, the ultimate success rate will be greatly discounted. Such people are generally relatively narrow circle of life, way of life monotonous.

Another motive, which is obtained from a fresh and intimate satisfaction. Such as a blind date, many people will own a very beautiful dress, has become a formula, not really like this dress, but was controlled; blind date numerous times, and she and her blind date most of the people do not remember. Liusong Yan said: "This way of life rather monotonous, fashionable dress through the blind in the other new exciting, fresh look for life, but also the motivation problem."man sang pearl jewellery